Personal Stories
Whatever way you look at it, a hysterectomy is a big thing but to me when a total hysterectomy was the next option I didn’t have to think about it at all.
If you are concerned about your symptoms and you are continuing to be dismissed, don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself as you know your body better than anyone.
58-year-old Nicky was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in April 2022, eight months after she'd had surgery to remove a mass from her abdomen.
Louise was diagnosed with vulval cancer for the first time when she was just 27 years old. She was treated successfully but the cancer returned 16 years later, in January 2023.
We must encourage women to talk openly about their gynaecological health, to raise awareness and understanding of the five gynae cancers and to appreciate what feels right for their bodies.
I am passionate about spreading the message about ovarian cancer symptoms as I had no idea what they were.
Kay died at home next to her husband Steve, on 4th June 2021 - she left two children Ollie (8 at the time) and Daphne (7).
‘sadly, there is a stigma to having dialogue on gynaecological matters. I did not tell several friends, family or colleagues about my diagnosis as I was too embarrassed of open dialogue on the topic. Talking about and understanding the symptoms of the 5 gynae cancers will save lives.’
“The message I want to get to women is please “get familiar with your fanny”, we are so good at checking our boobs but how often do we take a mirror to have a good old look down there?”
“Having a hysterectomy is not the end of the world, it is only the beginning of a new world and the start of many adventures, fun and endless new possibilities. It’s about sharing my story and helping other women cope with this life-changing experience that does affect a woman emotionally, mentally, physically, psychologically and spiritually and on many levels it’s a journey of self discovery and renewed hope.”
“Looking ahead to the next steps and keeping positive was a constant driver. Keep moving forward.”
“I’m feeling positive… getting a cancer diagnosis does not necessarily mean end of life.”
“If I hadn’t attended cervical screening last year, I might still be unaware I have cancer”
The following story of a woman’s experiences of vulva cancer has been shared with us anonymously.
As the country starts to come out of the pandemic, I too feel like I am starting to emerge back into the world.
In the months leading up to my 22nd birthday in December 2019, my life consisted of piling onto packed, sweltering trains for work, leg-burning cardio sessions and enjoying the hustle and bustle of London’s vibrant city life…
My story starts back in 2003. I’m living the student life at Cardiff University, and am right in the middle of second year exams.